I think we all know that self love is very important here! And how we treat others is how we treat ourselves. So it is very important that we know how to treat ourselves properly. It is all about being kind to ourselves and loving ourselves unconditionally, isn’t it! By treating ourselves with love, we will know exactly how it feels to be loved. And that will make us understand each other.
When you love yourself to the absolute, you will stop trying to convince anyone about anything. And you wouldn’t feel the need to try to impress anyone. You will feel happy from being you and that is a pretty good start for having a good and happy life.
Good life God life book explains more about self love and how to love others without losing yourself.